How do you tell your peers you can no longer be friends with
them because their lifestyle is in conflict with your desire to sustain a
relationship with Christ, and avoid their wrath?
You don't. You should never suggest breaking off your friendships. That would
be against Christian Principles. And because of your journey into a union
with Christ your peers will need you now more than ever before. They just
won't realize it yet. Although it is they whom may wish to sever ties with
you for presuming to be too good for them now that you have found Christ. And
this would make it very difficult for you to reconcile with them later when you
come to your senses and realize that there are no friends like old friends. The
prudent and Christian manner in which to approach a situation where
the lifestyles of your peers conflict with your desire to maintain your
Christian Principles is to first take a moment to find your conscience and
compassion, and then your Christian courage and leadership because you are going
to need them for what you are about to do next.
This may be the greatest thing you could ever do both for your friends and for
yourself. Invite your friends over for a dinner or a get-together,
or attend a function where all of your friends are expected to gather.
If you choose to attend a function instead it is appropriate to obtain
permission from the host. When it appears that the moment is right. Seize it!
With a Christian authority. Tap on a glass while asking everyone to gather near
and stress that you have an important announcement to make. After they
have drawn near and you now have everyone’s attention you can say:
I want to share some great news with everyone here because you are my
dearest friends and I do love you. We have been through many obstacles together
and I personally was able to pull through some very tough times because you
have been there. That’s why I want
to share this glorious news with you so that you may celebrate
with me. I have made a solid commitment to dedicate the rest of my life to
pursuing and maintaining a close relationship with Christ. This means
from this day forth it will be my intention to keep and live by my
Christian Principles. I invite each and every one of you to join me in this
journey of living a Christian life. If you choose not to join me at this
present time be assured that I will be here for you when the time is right for
you. Because you have been there for me.